Phindile Yende published her book Yet, You Married Him 2019. Which reached National Bestseller after selling off the shelves in South Africa’s leading bookstores. She wrote this book out of her passion for advancement of women and greatly believing that women should share their stories to empower each other, she authored the book to empower women about the reality of marriage and relationships with the men they are currently married to or men they contemplate spending the rest of their lives with. Having been in a toxic marriage herself for 6 years due to not heeding to the signs prior to getting married and subsequently her marriage ending in divorce. Her book also aims to empower men in finding themselves in the book and identifying themselves to either change and finding the importance of being better men or appreciate themselves for being the good men that they are.